House Rules & Guidelines
Core Values
This is a space that prioritizes wellbeing, balance, and sustainability. Our core values:
- Sovereignty — respect each person’s autonomy and boundaries
- Kindness — lead with goodwill in all interactions
- Open communication — speak honestly, listen deeply (see Communication Guidelines)
- Nature-positive living — care for the land and ecosystem we share
- Growth — commitment to learning, expanding, and evolving together
General Guidelines
Shared Spaces
- Clean up after yourself
- Leave spaces as you found them (or better)
- Respect others’ work and belongings
- If you notice it, nurture it — floors looking grubby? Give them a scrub. Rags piling up? Throw them in the wash
Quiet Hours
- TBD: Define quiet hours if applicable
Guests
- Each guest must be introduced to the community individually
- Guests are oriented to our conflict resolution process upon arrival and agree to abide by its spirit
Substances
- No substances are to be used on site so as not to influence others
- If you must, take a stroll or head into town and be mindful of the energy you bring back into the space
- We invite and encourage everyone to enter and experience the space with a clear mind and centered body
Natural Products Only
- Use of synthetic and chemical products is not allowed (for soil and health)
- Be vigilant with cosmetics, soaps, sunscreens, and bug sprays — natural products only
Dogs
No uninvited dogs on the property
We have two Anatolian Shepherd LGDs working the land — outside dogs trigger their guarding instincts. Confirm with the team before any visiting dog comes onto the property. Visiting dogs that are approved must stay leashed at all times and remain near the chateau, away from the livestock area.
For approved guest dogs:
- Indoors is a daytime dog-free space
- At night, dogs can accompany you to your room but must have their own bed
- No sofas or common sitting areas are shared with dogs
- Only bring companions if you are confident they won’t cause a disturbance
Kitchen
- Wash dishes promptly
- Label personal food
- Clean up spills immediately
- Take out trash when full
Bathroom
- TBD
Workspace / Studio Areas
- TBD
Outdoor Areas
- TBD
Fire Safety
- Follow wood heater guidelines
- No unattended candles
- Know fire procedures
Leaving the Property
- TBD: What to do when leaving for extended periods
- Heating considerations in winter
- Security
Conflict Resolution
We follow a structured process for working through disagreements — see the full Conflict Resolution guide. The key steps:
- Pause & Self-Attune (within 24 hours)
- Direct Communication (within 48 hours)
- Peer Mediation if unresolved
- Community Circle as last resort
Emergencies
- Always refer to Emergency Information